Naming Names
Philippians 4:1-4
There was something special about the church at Philippi, and Paul knew it firsthand. There was a great spirit there, a fragrance in the air. This has been a very positive letter compared to many of his epistles, but now as he begins to close he must correct something. He comes down on a couple of people and even names names...not because there was a huge problem in the church, but because there wasn't, and he wanted it to stay that way. We cannot be ignorant of the devil's devices, especially when God is at work, doing good things in our midst. That's when Satan strikes!
Overall, things were very good in the church, and there was a most pleasing aroma in the air. But now Paul pulls a couple of dead flies out of the ointment.
Ecclesiastes 10:1
Dead flies cause the ointment of the apothecary to send forth a stinking savour...
Even a bottle of expensive perfume can be spoiled by something as small as a dead fly.
There was a disagreement between two of the women. Maybe it was just personal, between only the two of them. Maybe it was one of those silly Baptist things.
ill.--a backwoods country church was voting on getting a new chandelier. One guy stood up and said, It makes no sense to buy a chandelier. There's nobody here who can even spell it. I guarantee you there's nobody who knows how to play it. Besides...I think we should use the money to buy some fancy lighting!
It may have been petty, but I don't think so. Since Paul is dealing with it publicly [in this letter which was to be read aloud] I believe it must have represented a larger schism in the church...perhaps people were taking sides and it was snowballing on them. Maybe they had gone to the next level - getting online and posting passive aggressive attacks about one another, publicly. [slim chance]
I am so blessed by this passage, because you can so clearly see Paul's shepherd's heart of love for the sheep, in the way he tenderly confronts them. It's good that they are confronted, and it's good that it is done with love. And it all culminates in v. 4 with joy, remembering that this is all about the Lord, and not about us.
1. Paul addresses the people.
v. 1 He speaks with a note of tenderness. He doesn't charge into it like a bull in a china shop. He's obviously not mad at anyone. He has compassion and tenderness.
"My brethren" - Paul never used this term loosely. We say 'brother' very often and quite freely. [from another mother] Much of our world uses the term, not meaning brother in Christ.
I bet Paul always remembered the first time somebody called him brother. In Acts 9 he was called brother. But his name wasn't Paul. It was Saul, and he had just gotten saved. The Lord told him to return to Damascus, and he entered a little room and prayed for three days. He was blind because God had stricken him with a temporary blindness. So he is praying in the dark for three days.
Meanwhile, the Lord speaks to another man in that area named Ananias. God sends him to talk to Saul. Ananias is very hesitant, understandably, because everyone knows who Saul is...a persecutor of the church. But the Lord says, trust me, I have chosen Saul as my vessel.
Ananias obeys the Lord and goes to Saul, and do you remember his first two words he spoke to him? "Brother Saul."
It must have meant so much to Saul's heart to hear himself referred to as a brother. Just 24 hours ago, he would have imprisoned or beat Ananias for being a Christian, and now that same Christian has his hand on his shoulder, calling him a brother in Christ! "I'm truly in the family!"
I love this fact that you and I can call one another a brother and sister in Christ. [You will notice, we say brother and sister 'round here - Family of God]
I like how Paul begins this final chapter: "My brethren..."
"dearly beloved and longed for"
What does beloved mean? It means you be loved!
Not only are they family, but they are loved ones of God. And because they are dearly loved by the Father, they ought to love one another.
"my joy and crown"
He was so proud of the years of labor he had poured into them. He wasn't about to let the devil undo all the work he had done on them.
Now his tender beginning turns more firm...
"stand fast in the Lord"
This is the picture of a soldier who refused to budge, and wouldn’t retreat when the onslaught of the enemy was approaching.
Paul says, Don't throw down your weapons, and don't even think about going back. Don't yield one inch. Stand fast in the Lord!
Paul is shoring up the team. There's a problem in the church...flies in the ointment...and it's spoiling the beautiful fragrance they once enjoyed.
So, he reminds them that they are brothers and sisters in the same family, beloved of the Father, and that they need to recognize the real enemy is not one another, but the Destroyer named Satan, against whom they must stand fast!
1. Paul addresses the people.
2. Paul addresses the problem. [beseech = beg]
v. 2 One preacher called them "You're odorous" and "Soon touchy"! But actually their names mean 'prosperous journey' and 'good luck.' [Even troubled folk have positive potential within.]
Notice how personal this is, as Paul calls them by name. This letter was to be read publicly. The pastor reads Euodias [and everyone turns and looks at her] and Syntyche [on the other side of the room, so heads turn that way...must've looked like a tennis match].
Sometimes you have to name names. Ready? Take a deep breath, it will be over soon!
The principle: If you sin publicly, repent publicly.
These ladies were saved, according to the end of v. 3. And Christians are sinners too...capable of things lost people are capable of.
They both think they are right, and the church is taking sides, so now Paul gives the remedy:
v. 2b "be of the same mind in the Lord."
Walk in harmony. You can be different and even have opinions, but come together in harmony to make music for the Lord, who is worthy!
ill.--an orchestra would be very boring if there were only melody and no harmony / only flutes and no strings.
We don't all have to think the same way like carbon copies of one another, walking in lock step all the time. We simply must be walking in the same direction! We must be playing the same song! We must play it in the same key! It helps if we follow the leader.
We must realize there's something bigger at stake than having our own way, and that is that the Lord be glorified, the church be in unity, and we continue to see His works done in our lives and in our world.
If we don't agree, then let's agree to disagree...in a loving way as Christians.
1. Paul addresses the people.
2. Paul addresses the problem.
3. Paul addresses the peacemaker.
v. 3 He is talking to someone in the church, and this time he isn't using their name. He simply calls them 'true yokefellow.' It's obvious that he's talking to an individual that everyone would recognize. Maybe it was a nickname? A yokefellow is one who works well with others in a harness!
"Entreat" = I'm asking you for a favor. Help these women to get along!
Whoever he or she was - they were a peacemaker. God is looking for peacemakers in the church, who lovingly help the immature to grow and to see the big picture!
The yokefellow doesn't take sides, they speak peace. They don't listen to gossip. They aren't part of division...they are part of healing and restoration!
A little explained, a little endured,
a little forgiven, and all is cured!
And God gets great glory when we count Him worthy of such.
v. 4 Rejoice in the Lord!